<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4810122248420263319</id><updated>2012-02-16T13:06:08.237-08:00</updated><category term='success'/><title type='text'>húìyǒu.búhuò - To make friends free from doubts</title><subtitle type='html'>Even though we've changed and we're all finding our own place in the world, we all know that when the tears fall or the smile spreads across our face, we'll come to each other because no matter where this crazy world takes us, nothing will ever change so much to the point where we're not all still friends.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://huiyou-buhuo.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4810122248420263319/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://huiyou-buhuo.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Alma Mater</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10476612320180596301</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_SL0W0Huhwgo/S2W4CVEiEuI/AAAAAAAAABM/dTJRYdm7vdo/S220/17012010(001).jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4810122248420263319.post-7329654876742832291</id><published>2009-04-02T02:57:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-15T01:02:22.869-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success'/><title type='text'>Jumbo Can'T JumP</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSYJzNUUBI/AAAAAAAAAFE/q8k9pjjc1Sk/s1600-h/cgan628l.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 356px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSYJzNUUBI/AAAAAAAAAFE/q8k9pjjc1Sk/s320/cgan628l.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320044353963708434" border="0"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="5"&gt;A &lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;couple of months ago, I had a unique experience of being with my family to the Kullu Circus. It was a fascinating one. My nephews, N&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;eeraj and Mayank, and i went in the morning to buy the tickets for evening show. The counter was crowded and the kids got restless and wanted to see the animals in cages.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;I went over to the circus gatekeeper and got permission provided we didnt feed them. Walking along side the tents the kids were exitedly looking at the animals in their cages - camel, horse, mule. variety of birds. In the last tent there were elephants. We peeped in to the tent and saw three elephants and a calf. I was surprised to see that each of them was tied with a rope - with one end to their front leg and other to a stake in ground. No chains and no cages for the Mighty Beasts. It seemed peculiar that birds had a cage but elephants didnt.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSV3CqN9AI/AAAAAAAAAEk/lG107AyomZ8/s1600-h/elephant.chain.xx.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 140px; height: 165px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSV3CqN9AI/AAAAAAAAAEk/lG107AyomZ8/s320/elephant.chain.xx.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320041832670688258" border="0"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Neeraj innocently asked me... " Deepak, why are the elephants tied up?" I replied, "to stop them from running away". he contemplated &amp;amp; continued, "But they are so big an&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;d can break logs wont it be easy for them to break and run away. Why dont they?" I noticed an animal trainer nearby, went to him and asked him why the elephants made no attempts to escape?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt; &lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;"Well," he said, "when the elephants were very young and much smaller we used the same kind of rope to tie them. By the time the elephants grow to full size, they are conditioned to believe the ropes are unbreakable. They think rope can still hold them, so they have given up trying to break free."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;The explanation satisfied neeraj's curiosity but i was astonished. The scene was typically ironic. The ropes were no more than &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Obsolete relics. &lt;/font&gt;A firm pull and the ropes would snap. But the elephants did not seem to care for a tug. In fact, I think the elephants were not even conscious of ropes any more. It would seem the animal had no desire to test their boundaries. Jumbo's couldn't jump their own ropes; they were prisioners of a &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;self-limiting belief.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSWzZck9QI/AAAAAAAAAEs/d77ujNUyVGE/s1600-h/6a00d83451cbf669e200e54f3218788833-640wi.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 167px; height: 210px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSWzZck9QI/AAAAAAAAAEs/d77ujNUyVGE/s320/6a00d83451cbf669e200e54f3218788833-640wi.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5320042869579642114" border="0"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;If drawn parallels between the Jumbo's and us, Such self-limiting beliefs prevent all &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;of &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;us from fully realising our full potential. These dream stealers impose boundaries even on our desires and imagination. How many such Relics are we unconsciously burdened with? How many of us go through life holding &lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once earlier?&lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;font size="5"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;font style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 153, 0);" size="5"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;There are no limits for human potential. It's we who limit our own growth&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="5"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;I, &lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;Choose to live up my full potential. I will consciouslyfind such self-limiting beliefs and challenge them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;font style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 204, 204);" size="5"&gt;&lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;BETTER A BROKEN ROPE THAN A WITHERED SPIRIT&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think beyond whats obvious ... dj&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font size="4"&gt;&lt;font face="trebuchet ms"&gt;&lt;font size="3"&gt;&lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;font style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4810122248420263319-7329654876742832291?l=huiyou-buhuo.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://huiyou-buhuo.blogspot.com/feeds/7329654876742832291/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://huiyou-buhuo.blogspot.com/2009/04/jumbo-can-jump.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4810122248420263319/posts/default/7329654876742832291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4810122248420263319/posts/default/7329654876742832291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://huiyou-buhuo.blogspot.com/2009/04/jumbo-can-jump.html' title='Jumbo Can&amp;#39;T JumP'/><author><name>Deepak</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09868416523314837705</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='27' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SiwLJ4J1vAI/AAAAAAAAAFM/W9-89in65_w/S220/dj_pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8NBHTdA0C9k/SdSYJzNUUBI/AAAAAAAAAFE/q8k9pjjc1Sk/s72-c/cgan628l.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry></feed>
